Lauren Smith, FNP-C, is a nurse practitioner working at the Center for Sexual Health and Wellness at the Livingston County Department of Health. She’s here to answer YOUR health questions – feel free to send them to sexed@geneseo.edu! Anonymized questions and answers will be posted here on a regular basis.
Q: I just started dating someone, and we’re probably going to have sex soon. How do I bring up the condom conversation?
A: Having an open line of communication is a crucial part of a healthy relationship. One option is to be upfront with your partner and start the conversation by stating that it is important to you to practice safe sex and use condoms 100% of the time. If your partner gives you pushback, reinforce that condoms not only prevent STIs, but also help to prevent pregnancy. If your partner continues to insist that condoms are not necessary, perhaps this is a sign that you need to reassess if this person is right for you. A healthy relationship is one in which both partners are respectful of each other and boundaries set by one another should be respected on both sides.
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